January 2010
34 posts
Jan 30th
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Jan 29th
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Settling for Mr. Good Enough →
Lori Gottlieb recently wrote a book in which she makes a case for “settling” for a decent man; this 2008 article from The Atlantic is a prototype of that argument.  I still can’t decide how I feel about her position.  On the one hand she is dryly pragmatic and describes marriage as a “a partnership formed to run a very small, mundane, and often boring nonprofit...
Jan 28th
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Jan 28th
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Jan 25th
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Of Love and Terminal 5
Imagine, if you can, six year old Kaja standing with her dad on the viewing deck of Warsaw’s old airport (out of use for years now).  We are watching my mother’s plane land and he warns me not to drop my bear onto the tarmac, because it would no longer be in Poland and could never be returned to me without a passport.  At bottom, I still think about airports as these special-access islands of no...
Jan 24th
Jan 24th
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ListenLymbyc Systym: “Bedroom Anthem”=My...
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Jan 20th
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Jan 20th
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compare the meerkat
Me: can you imagine if there was reincarnation and i came back as a tapir
Aneil: lol i hope there is reincarnation and we all come back as meerkats lol
Jan 20th
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Jan 19th
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Jan 19th
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Jan 18th
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Jan 18th
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Jan 16th
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ListenVetiver’s “Been So Long.”  It...
Jan 12th
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Jan 11th
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Jan 8th
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Jan 7th
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Stitching the World Together
A reverie, found in Caroline’s gchat status (thank you Caro!), that feels like it could have been written by any one of my friends.  Though there are no real answers to the big outstanding questions—will we settle? can we attach ourselves to others?—there’s comfort in typologies and in knowing that someone out there shares our thoughts exactly.  Where do you fit in, global...
Jan 7th
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Jan 7th
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Wikipedia List of Unusual Entries
In case your year is off to a slow start, like mine, and you are in dire need of some fairly useless trivia, follow Charlie’s lead and head to Wikipedia’s list of unusual entries. sophistry: Some absolutely amazing entries are catalogued on this list, including the town of Argleton which only exists on googlemaps, and the Ferdinand Cheval, being a huge building built by a postman...
Jan 7th
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Jan 5th
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Listen“Hey. Good morning. Watch the sun come up,...
Jan 5th
ListenA cover of Leonard Cohen’s “Everybody...
Jan 4th
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This poem has been haunting me
Alexandra Leaving, by Leonard Cohen Suddenly the night has grown colder. Some deity preparing to depart. Alexandra hoisted on his shoulder, they slip between the sentries of your heart. Upheld by the simplicities of pleasure, they gain the light, they formlessly entwine; and radiant beyond your widest measure  they fall among the voices and the wine. lt’s not a trick, your senses all...
Jan 4th
Jan 4th
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Bono's Top Ten →
I’m not a huge fan of Bono and I think U2 is one of the more overrated bands ever, but some of his top ten ideas for the next decade really helped restore my optimism. The cure for cancer! Teleportation! Sexy cars!
Jan 3rd
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ListenFlorence and the Machine: Rabbit Heart [Raise it...
Jan 3rd
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Weltanschauung For 2010 (hooray for gratuitous...
In university, I took a course on modern European history.  I chose it mostly because the professor had a comb-over like I’d never seen before (it would flop from side to side in greasy strands when he got excited), but I never regretted it.  The assigned reading list included one of his own books, but I have since lent it out and it remains somewhere in Baltimore, so I can’t look up this...
Jan 3rd